Day: January 30, 2021

Hello all you wonderful enneagram 9 people! ⠀ My name is Heather Fillmore. I live in Utah with my husband, our 6 youngest kids (there

We Nines are gifted with empathetic hearts. We also want nothing more than for everyone around us to be at peace. Combine these two traits

I used to think that my life was harder than most moms because my daughter couldn’t talk. And because my brain likes to be right,

Did you know that your Type 9 tendencies of playing small and keeping quiet are only there because of a false story that you’re telling

Nines are usually pretty go-with-the flow. But we’re humans. We still have lists of expectations, or “manuals” in our minds that tell us how the

This is what I like to add to statements about myself or my life that I don’t like. It helps to inch me a little

If I could give 25-year-old me advice it would be this. By nature, we humans want to belong. We also want to express ourselves in

I really hit the jackpot with this guy. He’s a 2w3 (I think?) and he balances out my nineness beautifully. He is willing to get

We 9’s loooove our peace and quiet. It feels safer when things are this way. But did you know that we don’t have to be

Are you an overthinker? I used to be one. Endless pros and cons lists and researching before I could make a decision or take action.