Heather Fillmore Coaching

No more checking out in order to maintain your state of peace.

I’m here to help you learn to boldly engage in everything that matters most to you.

You’re an Enneagram 9 and...

More than anything, you want a more peaceful, yet purpose-filled life.

You wish it was easier to live in a world with so much conflict and still accomplish what you want to accomplish and be your real self.

But it feels harder for you than it does for others. And this is disappointing.

Being bold doesn’t have to be hard.

Imagine what it would be like if you could access your “Healthy Type 3, Achiever” energy more often.

If you had motivation to not only get started, but to follow through, and finish those projects on your list.

Imagine if you had more influence in your social circles and at work, and you weren’t drained every day because of it.

Imagine feeling settled and relaxed in conversations with people you don’t spend a lot of time with. Just having your back and enjoying yourself instead of feeling self conscious.

Here’s what I want to tell you, my friend.

First, nothing is wrong with you or your life. You just have a brain that’s wired to constantly seek a peaceful state of mind and make sure that you’re fully accepted by everyone, and if this isn’t possible…to disengage.

Secondly, you don’t have to keep everyone in your life happy and in agreement in order to feel better. (Good thing, because it’s impossible!)

You just need help with seeing and experiencing things from a different perspective than you have now. A coach… who can help you step into who you TRULY are, underneath your Peacemaker personality.

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I have a unique coaching opportunity for Enneagram 9s, where they can gain powerful help, deep change, and real results.

In the Bold 9 Academy, you get all the benefits of one-on-one coaching with the added life-changing opportunity of hearing the coaching of other people who have your same conditioned tendencies.

Group coaching in this environment can help more than you can imagine. It allows you to fully see and have compassion for your thoughts, giving you the power to make the real changes that you long for.

Here’s what members of the Bold Nine Community are saying:

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“I love having such a supportive community of Nines. We all relate to each other so well and cheer one another on.”

I also love being able to get coached on any topic that I need some help with. Heather, Laura and Rhonda are amazing coaches! The Somatic practices that Heather teaches have really been the missing link for me in my growth and healing journey. I highly recommend The Bold Nine because you will learn how to implement incredible tools into your life so that you can start being your most bold self!

—Jennifer Honeysett

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“I joined The Bold Nine and it has been incredibly transformative. I'm more confident, less anxious and have even started my own business!”

I was dealing with a lot of anxiety, mostly self-inflicted by overanalyzing everything and trying to make sure everyone around me was always happy. I joined The Bold Nine and it has been incredibly transformative. I’m more confident, less anxious and have even started my own business! I can’t say enough great things about Heather and The Bold Nine Academy. Thank you for helping me find my voice, inner peace and an overall feeling of belonging.

—Monica Fernandez

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I’m so glad you’re here.

I’m Heather Fillmore. I’m an Enneagram Type 9, and like you, my brain is constantly offering ways to make every circumstance as easy as possible.

As an experienced coach, I’ve helped thousands of Nines to understand themselves better, to accept themselves more deeply, and to climb out of the unhealthy habits that keep them bound.

My coaching journey started shortly after we added our 8th and 9th children to our family through adoption, I found myself in a state of overwhelm and anxiety, as you can imagine.

Life coaching is what helped me to break out of my unhealthy thought patterns (that kept me in a state of frustration and sloth) and to start feeling better. It made all the difference for my mental health… and still does!

In 2019, after experiencing such a huge change in myself, I decided that I wanted to help other people in the same way. I received training at the Life Coach School and shortly after that I learned about the Enneagram and knew, as a type 9, that I was uniquely positioned to help other Nines like me through coaching.

Then, in 2020, I discovered Somatic Coaching, and found that it was the missing link in helping me change unhelpful patterns when mindset coaching can’t. I recently received training from The Strozzi Institute, the leader in Somatics, and I combine this modality with thought-based coaching, to help my clients in whatever ways they need most.

I help Peace-Lovers to start boldly engaging in what matters to them, from their minds and their bodies.

I help them to start taking charge of their emotional life so they can feel better and get the results they so long for.

My combined coaching approach.

During coaching I help you work with both your mind (Thought-Based coaching) and your body (Somatic coaching) to help you engage with what matters to you.

What is Thought-Based Coaching?

In this type of coaching, we work with what’s going on in your mind. We ask questions to find out what thoughts are creating your emotions, actions and results, and we spend time noticing what we’re creating.

Our Enneagram type is simply a story that we’ve told ourselves since we were children about the way that we exist in the world. We get to the root of those stories and question the beliefs that are holding us back as Nines.

What is Somatic Coaching?

In somatic coaching, we work through the body to help you get the results that you seek. As a somatic coach, I’m trained to see the ways that your default behaviors, moods, and habits reveal themselves in the body. With this skill, I can help you connect with your inner wisdom to find what’s important to you, commit to it, and fulfill that commitment so that you can show up as the person that you want to be. We do this through practices that combine centering, talking and noticing what’s going on in our bodies as we do this.

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“Overcoming Overwhelm”

Do you find yourself in a state of overwhelm more often than you’d like? Do you often feel like you just can’t focus with everything on your plate?

This is common for Nines, for many reasons.

In this free one-hour class, I share the tools that I use to keep myself out of a state of overwhelm, while still accomplishing what I want to as a business owner and a mom.

This class is previously recorded and will be sent to your inbox to watch at your convenience.