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Heather Fillmore Coaching

I help enneagram 9s boldly engage in all that matters.

Powerful coaching, coursework and community to help you stop playing small and start living with more purpose.

Many Enneagram 9s experience a strong pull towards comfort, which can make it challenging to
realize their dreams.

Can you relate to struggling with…

You deserve to live boldly, embracing every opportunity with confidence.

Prioritize You

Tune into your own needs as much as you do with others

Connect More Deeply

Enjoy more genuine connection with others without fear of conflict.

Achieve More Goals

Develop the drive to define and accomplish your personal goals.

I was just going through the motions, afraid to step out and disrupt the calm.

I am such a different person and in such a different place than I was
when I started with The Bold Nine Academy.

I GET IT.
Those distraction and numbing habits feel impossible to conquer.

I know you want to stop buffering from your emotions.

The problem is, the strong pull of comfort and ease makes it seem impossible. This can leave you feeling frustrated and disconnected from yourself and what matters to you. 

I believe every Enneagram 9 deserves to feel excited about their future. That’s why I’ve made it my mission to help Type 9s like you develop the drive to pursue and accomplish personal goals and realize their dreams. 

Here’s what makes my coaching unique:

Every step away from your comfort zone is a step towards a life filled with excitement and purpose. Are you ready to change the trajectory of your life? It’s never too late to start on a more purpose-filled path. Allow me to guide you.

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“Your somatic coaching has been
the missing key for me!”

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“The Bold Nine Academy has been THE most valuable tool in my personal growth journey.”

Kerry

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“I love having such a supportive community of Nines. We all relate to each other so well and cheer one another on.”

Jennifer Honeysett

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“What I love about being a member of the Bold Nine Academy is that I can consume content at my own pace, in a variety of ways.”

Megan Anderson

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“Sense of community I feel with people that have many of the same attributes, behaviors, and challenges that I do as a 9.”

Bonnie Van Epps

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“I love how Heather pairs somatic training with mindset training. I often experience good results with something I’m stuck on when I pay attention to both my body and mind and not just one or the other.”

Holly McCray

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“I joined The Bold Nine and it has been incredibly transformative. I’m more confident, less anxious and have even started my own business!”

Monica Fernandez

“I'm more confident, less anxious and have even started my own business!”

Kerri headshot

“The Bold Nine Academy has been THE most valuable tool in my personal growth journey.”

Kerry

Jennifer headshot

“I love having such a supportive community of Nines. We all relate to each other so well and cheer one another on.”

Jennifer Honeysett

Bonnie headshot

“Sense of community I feel with people that have many of the same attributes, behaviors, and challenges that I do as a 9.”

Bonnie Van Epps

Megan headshot

“What I love about being a member of the Bold Nine Academy is that I can consume content at my own pace, in a variety of ways.”

Megan Anderson

Holly headshot

“I love how Heather pairs somatic training with mindset training. I often experience good results with something I’m stuck on when I pay attention to both my body and mind and not just one or the other.”

Holly McCray

Monica headshot

“I joined The Bold Nine and it has been incredibly transformative. I’m more confident, less anxious and have even started my own business!”

Monica Fernandez

Here's how it works

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Join The Bold Nine Academy

Start your transformative journey by joining our supportive and dynamic coaching program.

Engage in Customized Coaching

Dive into coaching and/or engage in coursework crafted for your unique needs as a Nine.

Embrace a Bold New You

Live with newfound confidence and purpose, and see the positive impact ripple through your life.

Here's what you'll find inside:

Each quarter we have a unique focus. 
For our shorter, Summer Quarter (July and August) we’re focusing on Feeling on Purpose. 

You’ll learn how to gain emotional resilience and how to stop buffering from your uncomfortable emotions with excess food, alcohol, media or other means. 

This will help you to experience a more healthy, connected, purposeful life.

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CLEAR DIRECTION with SKILLED COACHES

Each week, Heather and/or one of the other experienced coaches coach B9 members 1:1. The calls are recorded and shared in the Bold Nine Academy environment and on the private podcast, so the rest of the community can get powerful help with their similar struggles.

All of the Bold Nine coaches are trauma informed and have the ability to help people tune into their own intuition to find the answers that they need, through a combination of thought work and somatic exploration.

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Summer Course Schedule

In addition to 1:1 coaching calls, the Academy also has one live workshop, Group EFT Tapping call or Somatic Practice call per week.

You don’t have to attend the calls live if time doesn’t permit! You will have the opportunity to watch the replays on the website or app, or listen to the audios on our private podcast and you are encouraged to only listen to the ones in which you are most interested.

 

July 10 at 11 am- 12 pm MST — Class 1:  Anger as our Teacher- We’ll talk about our relationship with anger and learn to recognize it, process it and use it for our higher good. Bold Nine Community Specialist and Author, Sheridan Ripley will also teach us how to integrate simple meditation techniques into our everyday life. 

July 18 at 10:00 am MST — Self Coaching Together- Heather will guide you through a proven process for helping you to feel better in difficult situations and create better results with The Creation Model

July 23 at 10:00-11:00 am MST — Class 2: Cultivating Emotional Resilience- Heather will teach you how to do this through somatics.

July 31 at 11:00-11:30 MST– Group EFT Tapping Session with Therapist, Susy Nayak- We’ll focus on releasing our anger or other strong emotions as Nines

Aug 6 at 11 am-12:15 pm MST–Class 3: How to Stop Buffering– Heather will teach you how to overcome your buffering/numbing habits so you can more healthily engage in life.

Aug 15 at 5:30-6:30 pm MST–Self Coaching Together– Practice Self Coaching again with Heather. This workshop is in the evening to accomodate those who can’t join during our usual time. 

August 21 at 10:30-11:30 am MST– Class 4: Shifting to New Habits through Somatics– Heather will teach you how it’s done!

August 27 at 9:30-10:00 am MST– Centering Together– Heather will lead you through some of our Bold Nine core Somatic Practices that help you to be more present, open, connected and purposeful during moments of pressure. 

 

Short on time?  There’s no such thing as falling behind. Just sprinkle it into your life here and there. The private podcast and the Bold Nine App make it really easy to access as you’re going about your day. Every little sprinkling can help you develop and feel happier as a Nine.

 

Bold Nine Members also have access to an archive of classes that can help them greatly improve their experience as a Nine, as well as meditations and embodiment practices that help them heal their nervous system and wake up to themselves. It’s all there for your learning when you’re ready to dive in, though there are no expectations whatsoever!

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COMMUNITY

When you join The Bold Nine Academy you immediately gain a group of friends who GET you like no other group ever has.

Members can share takeaways, wins and questions from the calls on the comment section of each replay. We also have a “Social Hall”, our in-house community forum.

You will never feel so deeply seen, understood and valued as you do in the Bold Nine Community.

If you prefer to stay in the background and do your own thing, that is also COMPLETELY acceptable! There’s no right or wrong way to participate.

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Here’s what’s included in your membership:


Special Summer Price:
$77 per month

Cancel or pause your membership anytime.

IMPORTANT: Summer Quarter will be our last quarter with this lower, subscription-based pricing. Starting in September, all Bold Nine Courses will be sold as single products at a higher price. If you join now, you can stay in for future courses at this lower rate, until you cancel your subscription.
The price will never be this low again, so be sure to take advantage of this special offer!

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Money-Back Guarantee

If you’re not completely satisfied in 30 days, we’ll give you your money back.

Frequently Asked Questions

The Enneagram is a system of personality typing that describes patterns in how people interpret the world and manage their emotions. The Enneagram describes nine personality types and maps each of these types on a nine-pointed diagram which helps to illustrate how the types relate to one another.- Truity.com

To find out if you’re a Type Nine. You can take a free Enneagram Personality Test Here. 

After taking the test, read about the core fears and motivations, as well as what happens in stress and growth with each of your top 3 here so you can make sure you get the correct type.

Here’s The Enneagram Institute’s description of the Type Nine: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-9

Even if you aren’t 100% sure if you’re a Type Nine, you’re more than welcome to join The Academy! What we do there can help anyone who relates to the issues that are common in a Nine.

You’ll have until the end of your billing cycle, then you’ll be removed. Think of membership like membership at a gym, but it’s for your mental and emotional health. You have access to everything in the “gym” while you’re a member, then that access ends when you’re no longer paying for it.

Absolutely! Many of our members listen to the calls as replays and don’t join in on any of the discussions and are still seeing incredible results. We even have a private podcast so you can easily access the replays and listen while you’re on the go. 

You are also welcome to leave your video off in Zoom and change your name to Anonymous (or something else!) when you come to calls. 

This is COMPLETELY normal for Nines, who are so used to blending in and not drawing attention to themselves. After actually doing it, though, you’ll find that it wasn’t as scary as you thought and you’ll be SO GLAD you did it because of the breakthrough that you had.

Heather and her other coaches are Nines themselves and they get it. They always help people to regulate their nervous system before starting in.

Every person in The Bold Nine has a gentle, accepting soul just like yours and they GET everything that you’re experiencing. Their brains do the same things as yours when under pressure. Also, even though the calls are recorded and shared with the group, it’s just you and the coach on the call, so it feels really casual. 

The Bold Nine is a place where you can feel supported and loved by a group of people who think and feel very similarly to you. Those who grow the most are the ones who allow themselves to be seen and get coaching. Listening to the coaching of others is incredibly helpful, but when you combine it with getting coaching yourself, your benefit will be even greater!

With this in mind…there’s ZERO pressure to get coached. You will still gain a ton of coaching by listening to others’ coaching. If you prefer to stay in the background, you are certainly welcome to do so. Or you can simply leave your camera off and change your name on Zoom if you’d like to get coached.

Yes. Membership is month-to-month or quarterly (billed every 3 months) and you can cancel anytime. The info on how to do that is in the Membership section of the Bold 9 Website. We just ask that you do it before your next billing cycle starts because refunds cost us money to make.

Heather offers private coaching sessions to her Bold Nine members at a discounted rate of $97. You can schedule those as often as you’d like, and Heather highly recommends it for going deeper and getting help with struggles that feel too vulnerable to share with the group. 

If you feel that 1:1 coaching would be a better fit for you right now,  she also has a few spots for private clients. You can learn more about that on the Services page.

First, you get very specific help, even through other people’s coaching because everyone in the program has the same conditioned tendencies (well-memorized habits) and default thoughts that you do. It’s like you’re the one getting coached, even if you’re in a different stage of life or have a different upbringing or culture. It’s truly amazing how it works.

Secondly, most life coaches only coach people’s brains. At the Bold Nine Academy, we also coach the body, which holds MOST of the information that you need for change. Members are sharing that somatic coaching is what is helping them change in ways that they never thought was possible by just getting help with their thoughts. Combining the two modalities helps our clients get the full picture of what’s going on when they’re having a hard time being who they want to be.

There are different levels of development for each of the Enneagram Types. Below, I have listed these levels for the Nine, as described by The Enneagram Institute.

I recommend coaching if you find yourself at “healthy” or “high-average” levels (levels 1-5) most of the time. Coaching helps a person who is on solid ground with their emotional and mental health, to enjoy and get more out of their lives.

I recommend a body-based therapy like ART, EMDR, or Somatic Therapy for trauma healing if you often find yourself at “low-average to unhealthy levels” (levels 6-9.) 

The Bold Nine Academy is the perfect companion to therapy, though. It’s helpful for anyone! You may just need more than what we can provide as coaches.


TYPE NINE – Levels of Development -The Enneagram Institute:
Healthy Levels

Level 1 (At Their Best): Become self-possessed, feeling autonomous and fulfilled: have great equanimity and contentment because they are present to themselves. Paradoxically, at one with self, and thus able to form more profound relationships. Intensely alive, fully connected to self and others.

Level 2: Deeply receptive, accepting, unselfconscious, emotionally stable and serene. Trusting of self and others, at ease with self and life, innocent and simple. Patient, unpretentious, good-natured, genuinely nice people.

Level 3: Optimistic, reassuring, supportive: have a healing and calming influence—harmonizing groups, bringing people together: a good mediator, synthesizer, and communicator.

Average Levels

Level 4: Fear conflicts, so become self-effacing and accommodating, idealizing others and “going along” with their wishes, saying “yes” to things they do not really want to do. Fall into conventional roles and expectations. Use philosophies and stock sayings to deflect others.

Level 5: Active, but disengaged, unreflective, and inattentive. Do not want to be affected, so become unresponsive and complacent, walking away from problems, and “sweeping them under the rug.” Thinking becomes hazy and ruminative, mostly comforting fantasies, as they begin to “tune out” reality, becoming oblivious. Emotionally indolent, unwillingness to exert self or to focus on problems: indifference.

Level 6: Begin to minimize problems, to appease others and to have “peace at any price.” Stubborn, fatalistic, and resigned, as if nothing could be done to change anything. Into wishful thinking, and magical solutions. Others frustrated and angry by their procrastination and unresponsiveness.

Unhealthy Levels

Level 7: Can be highly repressed, undeveloped, and ineffectual. Feel incapable of facing problems: become obstinate, dissociating self from all conflicts. Neglectful and dangerous to others.

Level 8: Wanting to block out of awareness anything that could affect them, they dissociate so much that they eventually cannot function: numb, depersonalized.

Level 9: They finally become severely disoriented and catatonic, abandoning themselves, turning into shattered shells. Multiple personalities possible. Generally corresponds to the Schizoid and Dependent personality disorders.

Don’t let a life of ‘what ifs’ be your story.

Together, let’s break through comfort barriers so you can live more purposefully.

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Still wondering if The Bold Nine Academy is right for you?

Shoot me  an email at heather@heatherfillmorecoaching.com with any questions you may have, or schedule a 20-30 minute consultation. I’ll help you make the right decisions for you. And remember, you can cancel anytime if you find it’s not what you’re looking for!

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