Heather Fillmore Coaching

I help enneagram 9s boldly engage in what matters.

Powerful coaching, coursework and community to help you stop playing small and start living with more purpose.

Many Enneagram 9s experience a strong pull towards comfort, which can make it challenging to
realize their dreams.

Can you relate to struggling with…

You deserve to live boldly, embracing every opportunity with confidence.

Prioritize You

Tune into your own needs as much as you do with others

Connect More Deeply

Enjoy more genuine connection with others without fear of conflict.

Achieve More Goals

Develop the drive to define and accomplish your personal goals.

I was just going through the motions, afraid to step out and disrupt the calm.

I love how Heather pairs somatic training with mindset training

I GET IT.
Stepping out of your comfort zone and asserting your desires is hard.

I know you want to be someone who boldly engages in life.

In order to do that, you need to get out of your own way and go after your dreams. The problem is, the strong pull of comfort and ease makes it seem impossible. This can leave you feeling frustrated and disconnected from yourself and what matters to you. 

I believe every Enneagram 9 deserves to feel excited about their future. That’s why for the last three years, I’ve made it my mission to help type 9s like you develop the drive to pursue and accomplish personal goals and realize their dreams. 

Here’s what makes my coaching unique:

Dear Nine, every step away from your comfort zone is a step towards a life filled with excitement and purpose. Are you ready to change the trajectory of your life? It’s never too late to start on a more purpose-filled path. Allow me to guide you.

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Happy Clients

“I'm more confident, less anxious and have even started my own business!”

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“The Bold Nine Academy has been THE most valuable tool in my personal growth journey.”

Kerry

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“I love having such a supportive community of Nines. We all relate to each other so well and cheer one another on.”

Jennifer Honeysett

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“What I love about being a member of the Bold Nine Academy is that I can consume content at my own pace, in a variety of ways.”

Megan Anderson

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“Sense of community I feel with people that have many of the same attributes, behaviors, and challenges that I do as a 9.”

Bonnie Van Epps

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“I love how Heather pairs somatic training with mindset training. I often experience good results with something I’m stuck on when I pay attention to both my body and mind and not just one or the other.”

Holly McCray

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“I joined The Bold Nine and it has been incredibly transformative. I’m more confident, less anxious and have even started my own business!”

Monica Fernandez

“I'm more confident, less anxious and have even started my own business!”

Kerri headshot

“The Bold Nine Academy has been THE most valuable tool in my personal growth journey.”

Kerry

Jennifer headshot

“I love having such a supportive community of Nines. We all relate to each other so well and cheer one another on.”

Jennifer Honeysett

Bonnie headshot

“Sense of community I feel with people that have many of the same attributes, behaviors, and challenges that I do as a 9.”

Bonnie Van Epps

Megan headshot

“What I love about being a member of the Bold Nine Academy is that I can consume content at my own pace, in a variety of ways.”

Megan Anderson

Holly headshot

“I love how Heather pairs somatic training with mindset training. I often experience good results with something I’m stuck on when I pay attention to both my body and mind and not just one or the other.”

Holly McCray

Monica headshot

“I joined The Bold Nine and it has been incredibly transformative. I’m more confident, less anxious and have even started my own business!”

Monica Fernandez

Here's how it works

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Join The Bold Nine Academy

Start your transformative journey by joining our supportive and dynamic coaching program.

Engage in Customized Coaching

Dive into coaching and/or engage in coursework crafted for your unique needs as a Nine.

Embrace a Bold New You

Live with newfound confidence and purpose, and see the positive impact ripple through your life.

Here's what you'll find inside:

Each quarter we have a unique focus. This January through March, it’s Creating a Purpose-Filled Future. I’ll teach you how to tune into your desires and create a vision for your life that is clear and motivating.

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CLEAR DIRECTION with SKILLED COACHES

Each week, Heather and/or one of the other experienced coaches coach B9 members 1:1. The calls are recorded and shared in the Bold Nine Academy environment and on the private podcast, so the rest of the community can get powerful help with their similar struggles.

All of the Bold Nine coaches are trauma informed and have the ability to help people tune into their own intuition to find the answers that they need, through a combination of thought work and somatic exploration.

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WORKSHOPS, CLASSES and BINGABLE LESSONS

In addition to coaching calls, the Academy also has 1-2 live calls per week that help Nines to learn how to be more bold, happy and purposeful while honoring their gentle, calm nature.

Here are some of the topics we’ve covered in our workshops so far:

  • How to Feel Better
  • Connection in Relationships
  • Becoming your #1 Fan
  • “Waking Up” as a 9
  • How to stop Numbing Out
  • Discerning what you Want
  • Productivity
  • Holding Boundaries
  • Overcoming Overwhelm
  • Raising your Happiness Level
  • The Art of Desire & Intimacy
  • Confident Speaking
  • The Enneagram and NInes


We also have 30-minute Self-Healing
 Sessions, somatic practice calls where we practice centering and being more intentional from our bodies in the face of pressure, as well as communal work times where we practice coaching ourselves through our challenges.

If you miss a few weeks, no problem. There’s no such thing as falling behind. Just sprinkle it into your life here and there. The private podcast and the Bold Nine App make it really easy to access as you’re going about your day. Every little sprinkling can help you develop and feel happier as a Nine.

Members also have access to an archive of lessons that teach ideas and tools that can greatly improve their experience as a Nine, as well as meditations and embodiment practices that help them heal their nervous system and wake up to themselves. It’s all there for your learning when you’re ready to dive in, though there are no expectations whatsoever!

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COMMUNITY

When you join The Bold Nine Academy you immediately gain a group of friends who GET you like no other group ever has.

Members can share takeaways, wins and questions from the calls on the comment section of each replay. We also have an in-house community forum on the app.

You will never feel so deeply seen, understood and valued as you do in the Bold Nine Community.

If you prefer to stay in the background and do your own thing, that is also COMPLETELY acceptable! There’s no right or wrong way to participate.

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At the Bold Nine Academy, you’ll learn how to honor your conditioning, which  took care of you as a child, but at the same time, practice a more connected, intentional way of being.

It operates like a gym membership. You can choose what you’d like to do, and how often you’d like to do it.

Here’s what’s included in your membership:

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$97 per month or $249 per Quarter

Cancel or pause your membership anytime.

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If you would love to join the Academy, but paying $97 per month would create too much of a financial strain, please click here to consider our tiered pricing option.

Money-Back Guarantee

If you’re not completely satisfied in 30 days, we’ll give you your money back.

Frequently Asked Questions

The Enneagram is a system of personality typing that describes patterns in how people interpret the world and manage their emotions. The Enneagram describes nine personality types and maps each of these types on a nine-pointed diagram which helps to illustrate how the types relate to one another.- Truity.com

To find out if you’re a Type Nine. You can take a free Enneagram Personality Test Here. After taking the test, read about the core fears and motivations, as well as what happens in stress and growth with each of your top 3 here so you can make sure you get the correct type.
Link: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

Here’s The Enneagram Institute’s description of the Type Nine: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-9

Even if you aren’t 100% sure if you’re a Type Nine, you’re more than welcome to join The Academy! What we do there can help anyone who relates to the issues that are common in a Nine.

Both. Heather shares 3-month courses, and students remain in the Bold Nine Academy from one month or quarter to the next (depending on which plan they chose) until they cancel their subscription. 

You’ll have until the end of your billing cycle, then you’ll be removed. Think of membership like membership at a gym, but it’s for your mental and emotional health. You have access to everything in the “gym” while you’re a member, then that access ends when you’re no longer paying for it.

Each week, we have two calls. Most are between 9:00 am and 1:oo pm and some between 5:00 and 7:00 pm Mountain Time (US.)   

Even those in other countries can catch some calls live depending on their work schedules.  All calls are recorded and easy to access through the website or private podcast.

Absolutely! Many of our members listen to the calls as replays and don’t join in on any of the discussions and are still seeing incredible results. We even have a private podcast so you can easily access the replays and listen while you’re on the go. 

You are also welcome to leave your video off in Zoom and change your name to Anonymous (or something else!) when you come to calls. 

This is COMPLETELY normal for Nines, who are so used to blending in and not drawing attention to themselves. After actually doing it, though, you’ll find that it wasn’t as scary as you thought and you’ll be SO GLAD you did it because of the breakthrough that you had.

Heather and her other coaches are Nines themselves and they get it. They always help people to regulate their nervous system before starting in.

Every person in The Bold Nine has a gentle, accepting soul just like yours and they GET everything that you’re experiencing. Their brains do the same things as yours when under pressure. Also, even though the calls are recorded and shared with the group, it’s just you and the coach on the call, so it feels really casual. 

The Bold Nine is a place where you can feel supported and loved by a group of people who think and feel very similarly to you. Those who grow the most are the ones who allow themselves to be seen and get coaching. Listening to the coaching of others is incredibly helpful, but when you combine it with getting coaching yourself, your benefit will be even greater!

With this in mind…there’s ZERO pressure to get coached. You will still gain a ton of coaching by listening to others’ coaching. If you prefer to stay in the background, you are certainly welcome to do so. Or you can simply leave your camera off and change your name on Zoom if you’d like to get coached.

Yes. Membership is month-to-month or quarterly (billed every 3 months) and you can cancel anytime. The info on how to do that is in the Membership section of the Bold 9 Website. We just ask that you do it before your next billing cycle starts because refunds cost us money to make.

Heather offers private coaching sessions to her Bold Nine members at a discounted rate of $97. You can schedule those as often as you’d like, and Heather highly recommends it for going deeper and getting help with struggles that feel too vulnerable to share with the group. 

If you feel that 1:1 coaching would be a better fit for you right now,  she also has a few spots for private clients. You can learn more about that on the Services page.

First, you get very specific help, even through other people’s coaching because everyone in the program has the same conditioned tendencies (well-memorized habits) and default thoughts that you do. It’s like you’re the one getting coached, even if you’re in a different stage of life or have a different upbringing or culture. It’s truly amazing how it works.

Secondly, most life coaches only coach people’s brains. At the Bold Nine Academy, we also coach the body, which holds MOST of the information that you need for change. Members are sharing that somatic coaching is what is helping them change in ways that they never thought was possible by just getting help with their thoughts. Combining the two modalities helps our clients get the full picture of what’s going on when they’re having a hard time being who they want to be.

There are different levels of development for each of the Enneagram Types. Below, I have listed these levels for the Nine, as described by The Enneagram Institute.

I recommend coaching if you find yourself at “healthy” or “high-average” levels (levels 1-5) most of the time. Coaching helps a person who is on solid ground with their emotional and mental health, to enjoy and get more out of their lives.

I recommend a body-based therapy like ART, EMDR, or Somatic Therapy for trauma healing if you often find yourself at “low-average to unhealthy levels” (levels 6-9.) 

The Bold Nine Academy is the perfect companion to therapy, though. It’s helpful for anyone! You may just need more than what we can provide as coaches.


TYPE NINE – Levels of Development -The Enneagram Institute:
Healthy Levels

Level 1 (At Their Best): Become self-possessed, feeling autonomous and fulfilled: have great equanimity and contentment because they are present to themselves. Paradoxically, at one with self, and thus able to form more profound relationships. Intensely alive, fully connected to self and others.

Level 2: Deeply receptive, accepting, unselfconscious, emotionally stable and serene. Trusting of self and others, at ease with self and life, innocent and simple. Patient, unpretentious, good-natured, genuinely nice people.

Level 3: Optimistic, reassuring, supportive: have a healing and calming influence—harmonizing groups, bringing people together: a good mediator, synthesizer, and communicator.

Average Levels

Level 4: Fear conflicts, so become self-effacing and accommodating, idealizing others and “going along” with their wishes, saying “yes” to things they do not really want to do. Fall into conventional roles and expectations. Use philosophies and stock sayings to deflect others.

Level 5: Active, but disengaged, unreflective, and inattentive. Do not want to be affected, so become unresponsive and complacent, walking away from problems, and “sweeping them under the rug.” Thinking becomes hazy and ruminative, mostly comforting fantasies, as they begin to “tune out” reality, becoming oblivious. Emotionally indolent, unwillingness to exert self or to focus on problems: indifference.

Level 6: Begin to minimize problems, to appease others and to have “peace at any price.” Stubborn, fatalistic, and resigned, as if nothing could be done to change anything. Into wishful thinking, and magical solutions. Others frustrated and angry by their procrastination and unresponsiveness.

Unhealthy Levels

Level 7: Can be highly repressed, undeveloped, and ineffectual. Feel incapable of facing problems: become obstinate, dissociating self from all conflicts. Neglectful and dangerous to others.

Level 8: Wanting to block out of awareness anything that could affect them, they dissociate so much that they eventually cannot function: numb, depersonalized.

Level 9: They finally become severely disoriented and catatonic, abandoning themselves, turning into shattered shells. Multiple personalities possible. Generally corresponds to the Schizoid and Dependent personality disorders.

Don’t let a life of ‘what ifs’ be your story.

Together, let’s break through comfort barriers

so you can live a life of purpose and excitement.

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Still wondering if The Bold Nine Academy is right for you?

Shoot me  an email at heather@heatherfillmorecoaching.com with any questions you may have. I’ll help you make the right decisions for you. And remember, you can cancel anytime if you find it’s not what you’re looking for!

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“Overcoming Overwhelm”

Do you find yourself in a state of overwhelm more often than you’d like? Do you often feel like you just can’t focus with everything on your plate?

This is common for Nines, for many reasons.

In this free one-hour class, I share the tools that I use to keep myself out of a state of overwhelm, while still accomplishing what I want to as a business owner and a mom.

This class is previously recorded and will be sent to your inbox to watch at your convenience.

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